Honoring a loved one’s memory is one of the most meaningful ways to celebrate their life. This can take many forms—sharing heartfelt words, choosing a favorite song or poem, or cherishing personal mementos. One of the most personal and lasting decisions, however, is selecting what they will wear for an open casket viewing. This choice is not only a reflection of who they were but also an enduring memory for those who come to say goodbye.

An open casket funeral is a service where the casket is left open, allowing family and friends to view the deceased one final time. This tradition serves as a poignant way to honor a loved one, provide a sense of closure, and create a tangible opportunity to say goodbye. For many, it is an essential part of the grieving process.

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When deciding on attire for the deceased, consider their personality, preferences, and the legacy they leave behind. Select clothing that reflects their unique style or a meaningful aspect of their life. A favorite color, a suit they wore to special occasions, or a dress they loved can all make fitting choices.

Cultural or religious traditions should also play a key role in your decision. Some faiths have specific guidelines for burial clothing, and honoring these customs can provide comfort to family and friends.

Finally, consider the tone of the service. Some families prefer formal attire, while others may opt for a more casual or thematic approach that reflects how their loved one lived.

While the options for dressing the deceased are broad, there are some items to avoid:

For open casket services, embalming is often performed to preserve the body and restore a natural appearance. This process involves replacing bodily fluids with embalming fluid, cleaning the body, and applying restorative cosmetics to ensure the deceased looks peaceful and presentable.

Alternatives to embalming may be an option for families whose traditions or preferences do not require it. Consult your funeral director to understand the choices available and how they align with your needs.

The preparation process is typically overseen by the funeral director and carried out by licensed professionals, such as embalmers. They take great care in cleaning the body, embalming, and applying cosmetics to ensure a serene and natural appearance. Families can collaborate with the funeral home to include personal touches, such as jewelry, accessories, or sentimental items.

Planning ahead for your own funeral, including what you’ll wear, can ease the burden on loved ones. It allows you to express your personality and ensures your wishes are respected. Here’s how to start:

Choosing what a loved one—or yourself—will wear for an open casket viewing is an act of love and respect. It captures their essence and leaves a lasting impression on family and friends. Through careful consideration, this final gesture can beautifully honor the life they lived and the memory they leave behind.

Select clothing that reflects their personality, style, and preferences. A favorite outfit, formal wear, or something symbolic of their life is often ideal. Consider comfort and appropriateness for the service.

Yes, you can include jewelry, pins, scarves, or other meaningful items. Discuss with the funeral home whether these items will be buried or removed before cremation or burial.

Certain materials, like those containing metal (zippers, belts, or underwires), should be avoided if cremation is planned. Fragile fabrics like silk may not hold up well during preparation. Always consult with your funeral director for specific guidelines.

In many cases, families are allowed to assist in dressing their loved ones, especially in religious or cultural practices. However, funeral home staff typically handle the process to ensure the body is properly prepared.

If you’re unsure, consider involving other family members or friends who may know their preferences. Neutral and respectful options, such as a simple dress or suit, are always appropriate.

Many funeral homes offer basic clothing options, such as gowns or suits, if families cannot provide attire. You can also purchase new items if desired.

Yes, professional embalmers typically apply makeup and style the hair to restore a natural and peaceful appearance. You can provide guidance or specific requests, such as using their own makeup or preferred hairstyle.

Embalming is not always required but is highly recommended for open casket services to preserve the body and create a presentable appearance. Some religious or cultural traditions may opt out of embalming.

You can select and document your preferences for clothing, accessories, and other details in your will or funeral pre-arrangement plan. Communicate your wishes to a trusted loved one or your funeral director.

Minor adjustments can often be accommodated by the funeral home, but it’s best to finalize attire decisions early in the process to avoid complications. Always communicate any special requests as soon as possible.

If you have questions about open caskets, embalming or anything else – you can contact Tharp Funeral Home. Our compassionate directors can help.